Neither.... nor.....
A new guy started at work a few months ago and my boss casually asked me if I like him. I told her the truth, "I don't have an opinion on him yet." I used to assume everyone I met are naturally a nice person until proven otherwise... too many times I was disappointed. Many people seemed okay at first, then a few months later they turned out to be a complete, for lack of a better word, weirdo or a downright asshole, with the weirdo ranking slightly higher than an asshole. So I no longer form premature opinion on people that I just met. I neither like nor dislike them. They are neither a good or bad person until proven one way or another.
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